the joy of LESS! part two
There is a new craze that has swept over the real estate market, and I’m sure you’ve seen or heard about it before. I’m talking about tiny houses, and yes, they are considered a good thing! The “Tiffany” is a beautiful tiny house model decked out in a fresh blue color, coming in at just under 400 square feet. And guess what? She is the most viewed tiny house of all time. You can find photos of this minimalistic home in Vogue and Dwell, and I have to say I am intrigued when I look at photos of it!
There are so many advantages to having less stuff. I mean, the kitchen is right next to the couch . . . hello popcorn and movie night! And I’m told it takes all of ten minutes to vacuum the entire place. As fun as this all sounds, I don’t think I could live in a house that tiny—but I’ve got to say, the idea of simplifying sounds incredibly alluring. Not to mention, you’d save a ton of money and time! There would be so much less to maintain and clean, and you’d have much more time to give, save, and invest in things that matter more in the long run.
A wise woman should line her heart with a prayer:
“Give me neither poverty nor riches; feed me with the food that is my portion, that I not be full and deny You and say, ‘Who is the Lord?’ Or that I not be in want and steal, and profane the name of my God” (Proverbs 30:7–9 NAS).
Billionaire John D. Rockefeller, one of the richest men in modern history, was once asked, “How much money is enough?” He flatly responded, “Just a little bit more.”
When I was a growing up, my dad helped my grandparents purchase a small one-level bungalow on East 27th Street in Long Beach, California. Like many of the new post-war houses that sprung up in suburbs all around the country, it was not big or fancy, but it was the American dream of owning their own home and within the grasp of countless middle-class families like ours.
I loved staying in that house on some of our summer vacations. Mom, Dad, and all five of us kids would cram in and fill every corner of that 1,200-square-foot house. There was a tiny, galley-shaped kitchen with Grandma’s round maple table and four captain’s chairs. Us kids would pull up folding chairs to eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner around that small little table. Behind the kitchen was a living room with a small loveseat, two comfortable chairs, and a TV. For special occasions like Christmas and Easter, there was a formal dining table nestled up against the wall. Opposite the settee were full-length windows and a screened-in porch overlooking a tiny, shaded paradise jammed with Grandma’s gladiolas, paper whites, hydrangeas, and camellia bushes.
The Housing Act of 1949 had achieved its goal: “. . . a decent home and suitable living environment for every family.” And it was.
It makes me wonder about what the American dream has become since those days. The average home has tripled in size and I think we all could agree that we certainly have more than ever. Bigger closets and garages overflowing with boxes and miscellaneous bins. Could it be a strong indicator of our sliding scale of how much is enough?
One out of eleven Americans pays for space to store the material overflow of the American dream. The storage industry made 32.7 billion dollars last year. Sadly, we are not happier with this “more is more” mindset. In fact, in a survey of Forbes 400 “richest” list, their satisfaction was rated at exactly the same level as the Masai people of Kenya and the Intuit people of northern Greenland, who have no electricity or running water. Apparently, money and possessions can’t buy happiness. That is why we need to take a step back and think about this seriously.
These timeless words of Scripture speak so clearly:
Godliness with contentment is great gain.
For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. —1 Timothy 6:6–11 (NIV)
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Geri Jones | August 19, 2019
We did just that. Went from 1500 to 1000 from 3 bed 2 bath to 2 bed 1 bath. Sold or gave away so much. Living much lighter. No mortgage just a small maintenance fee per month. God is well pleased.
Jo Huang | August 19, 2019
Amen sister!
Dwynn Paula | August 20, 2019
So good - thank you!
Pammy Jean | September 19, 2019
Amen, congrats
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Lauryn Pruett | August 20, 2019
I'm actually living small and it still amazes me how much we think we need. I did need this story this morning right down to the camellias. God Bless L
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Shelley | August 19, 2019
This was excellent, Cathe and so true. When my husband and I take a ride in the car, seeing these HUGE houses, we wonder where did common sense go? Four bathrooms and who knows what else. I was just thinking this morning about seriously sorting through some things and getting rid of stuff. And we only live in a 5 room ranch. I agree that having less would give more time to what is important.
I am glad to read that I am not the only one who feels this way.
Thanks and God Bless,
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Cynthia L Reed | August 19, 2019
When I was in college I cleaned house for the summer for a woman living in a huge home. It took me the entire week to vacuum. When I told her i was going back to school she cried. I knew there and then that I never wanted to live in such a house. I think that instead of us owning things they soon own us, requiring all of our time and focus to maintain them.
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Marie Harlow | August 19, 2019
I agree wholeheartedly. How large is YOUR home?
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Meg | August 19, 2019
I couldn’t agree more I sold my 4000 sq ft home in CO and sold mostly everything to live in a 900 sq.ft home in TN- it frees my mind (and wallet) to enjoy Gods word and people with newfound freedom.
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Kimberly Devlin | August 19, 2019
This was very inspiring. Makes me grateful for all God has given me which is just enough. My husband works I stay home and take care of the kiddies. We are never without because God provides exactly what we need. Again, I am so grateful. God bless!
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Priscilla | August 19, 2019
you know, I just want the American dream again but it is so far away from me. They have priced me so far out of the limits. There are homes in areas that I would not send my worse enemy to live even those I can not afford.
My son and I had to move into a one bedroom only 450 sq foot two of us he is 22 and can not find anything as far as a job while he is going to college.
we just would like a decent home to live in, sometimes I ask God, what did I do to get here right now
Maria | August 21, 2019
Dear Sister- I’m keeping you in my prayers. Don’t despair- Keep seeking Him first. As a bi-racial woman, I’ve seen 2 generations before me not be able to have decent housing in a safe beautiful neighborhood even if they could afford it. My grandma had $20,000 back in the 1940’s to buy a house in a California beach community and the residents wouldn’t allow it. I’ve had relatives in the south burned out of their nice homes, never able to recover; but this is the devils domain after all. I pray for an end to all the horrible things of this world.
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Bonnie Lamb | August 19, 2019
I really enjoy your emails. I am constantly purging and still feel like we have too much STUFF in this house. It is a tri-level with a family room in the basement area. My 20 year old son is living there while he goes to school for IT. The house just feels cluttered to me and I HATE IT
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Sherrie Evans | August 19, 2019
this is so true! more does not make you happy. less is best, then we trust in God our Heavenly Father.Amen
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Lisa Marie | August 19, 2019
Great topic, Cathe. I like the Joy of Less series! Your grandparents' home sounds so cozy. I think what's most important is aligning your heart with Jesus. I could not live in a "tiny house" either, but we almost do. I'm in my mid-40s and, several years ago, my husband needed to leave a stressful job for health reasons. We left a 4BR home and moved into our tiny 524sq ft weekend condo, giving away much in the process. Yes, we do pay for storage--it is hard to store seasonal items, luggage, etc. in a place this small. On the other hand, we don't have a mortgage because we bought at the bottom of the market and paid cash with a small loan from family that we are paying off. We downsized early. Yes, it is faster to clean a space this small, There are fewer trashcans to empty and less to dust. Then again, you need to clean more often because you live in the same small space all the time! I pick up like crazy because one item left out looks like a culttered house! LOL. I wouldn't want people who live in bigger homes to feel guilty. And for sure I would not want to go smaller than this, if given a choice. Still, I feel aligning your heart is most important. Being content with one's daily bread is a lifelong challenge that is worth striving for.
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Lynn | August 19, 2019
Everytime I see another storage facility being built, my response is "Look! Another shrine to gluttony!" So sad.
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Sylvia | August 19, 2019
I love this! It is so true! We sold our 1900 sq. ft. 4 bedroom house with 2 car garage and built a small 1050 sq. ft. 2 bedroom house with carport and storage shed. We also sold 1/2 our possessions. It’s a great feeling. I do wish I had more room for entertaining though.
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Sandy | August 20, 2019
Sometimes there are legitimate reasons for having a storage unit, such as moving out of state and waiting to move into a new home, or in my son's situation, he bought a business and will live in the loft for a while, until he pays off the business loan. He was living with us, and now his furniture will go into storage. We just moved this month and the weight of our possessions overwhelms me. I took so much to Salvation Army while packing up, but not enough! Purging more as I'm unpacking. I inherited a lot from my parents, including pieces of antique furniture that I no longer want. 35 years of holding onto them is enough and I am ready to let go. I've been telling myself that my memories are in my heart, and not in thngs they owned.
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Donna | September 30, 2019
Agree totally, I always told my girls..Love grows best in small houses. When they were teens and upset about things we had to pass in the hall to get to the bathroom and to the frig..I enjoyed the sleepover's on the living room floor where I could monitor and knew all where safe. Too much time spent caring for your stuff and no time for the individuals in the home.
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Carrie Lampert | June 19, 2020
I once lived while being 40 yrs. old with my husband, 2 dogs and 3 cats in 500 sq. ft. I was happy with few things but knew what the purpose of life was. We now live in 1600 sq. ft. I am happy and still know what the purpose of life is (now 69 yrs. old) We used to live in 2000 sq. ft. I don't think it matters how big or small of a home one lives in. Or how much one has or does not have. Simple life is sometimes not related to "stuff" If I down sized again (we already have) I would have to give away my grandma's and mothers things that they left me. I don't want to. I have an art collection that I have bought over the yrs. to leave to friends but I want to enjoy it until I can't, so I need a house with wall space to enjoy my paintings. I like space and I like re-reading the 1000 books we have on book shelves. We have no children, No grandchildren, I retired at 40 due to needing a heart transplant. I don't want to give my fishing or hunting gear away or my golf clubs. I am very active women now that I have a new heart. I like my 3 dogs and my cat. I'm happy. It matters not the size of the home or the amount of "Stuff" one has, as long as the stuff does not own you and/or control you or your life. My life is still simple, even tho' I own a lot of "stuff" As long as we keep our eyes and mind on Him, glorify him in our thoughts, actions and always focus on where we are going...to heaven to be with Jesus. When my life becomes complicated, not on balance, it has to do with many other things then my home or what is inside of it. So I start looking first at what is happening out side such as going to 5 doctor appt. every week, living with a husband who has dementia, Those are the things that complicate my life. The "stuff" I have and my home make me feel more centered while all this is going on outside of me, But still I don't forget whats most important and that is keeping my focus everyday on going to heaven. That brings me back to "simple"
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