filling the moments
Spring is just around the corner, can you believe it? Long, warm days, thoughts of Easter break, and a freer schedule is on her mind. As she scrolls through social media, she is bombarded with beautiful posts of flower filled meadows and floral cotton dresses, and her mind begins to wander.
Her kids are seriously so talented.
Wow, that house looks amazing!
I want that dressโitโs only $25? Even I can afford that! (Swipe up.)
Look at that . . . sushi is food art at its best . . . now Iโm hungry.ย
We all know what itโs like to let our mind wander while scrolling through social media. Chasing butterflies of interestยญโso delightful and prettyยญโonly half aware as we wander through a labyrinth of endless, time-killing distractions. With every image we absorb into our minds, our emotions instantly react.
Social media is a fun way to keep up with all thatโs going on in our friendโs lives. It can be a positive way to stay up with ministries and businesses that are helpful, encouraging, and informative. But when we analyze the amount of screen time we spend (and perhaps the negative side effects of wallowing in the mire of comparison, envy, or discontent) we might need to make some changes!
It seems like a harmless way to pass time, I know.
Somewhere in the back of our mind we know we can just delete that app or put our phone down. But itโs so easy to reach for that phone isnโt it? Sigh. Nature abhors a vacuum. So if we fill those moments with good things, we wonโt find ourselves back in the same time-wasting habits.
You might be thinking, really Cathe? There are bigger battles than this. This is much ado about nothing. What does it matter, in the grand scope of things, if we waste a few minutes in the day? A few minutes? Here are some disturbing stats I recently came across.
Teens spend an average of nine hours on entertainment media every day (and tweens average six hours) not including time spent using media for school or homework. For that, tweens average more than four and a half hours of screen time a day and teens more than six and a half hours.
ย Surprised? Maybe this is only a problem for teensโsurely adults donโt use that much screen time! Youโre right, they donโt. Adults actually use more! According to a 2018 Nielsen Total Audience Report, nearly half of an adultโs day is dedicated to consuming this content. In fact, American adults spend more than eleven hours per day listening, watching, reading, and interacting with media.
Listen, my friend . . . it isnโt the small luxury of just wasting time on what is so benignly attractive that makes it dangerous. All this looking and listening can divert, root up, and devalue the good thingsโthe best things that God intends for us to engage in.
In his book, The Screwtape Letters, C.S. Lewis writes about a senior devil named Screwtape who advises his nephew Wormwood not to overlook the subtle methods the devil might use to catch humans in his web.
โYou will say that these are very small sins; and doubtless, like all young tempters, you are anxious to be able to report spectacular wickedness. But do remember, the only thing that matters is the extent to which you separate the man from the Enemy. It does not matter how small the sins are provided that their cumulative effect is to edge the man away from the Light and out into the Nothing. Murder is no better than cards if cards can do the trick. Indeed the safest road to Hell is the gradual oneโthe gentle slope, soft underfoot, without sudden turnings, without milestones, without signposts.โ
ย Godโs Word reminds us that, whether we realize it or not, we live on a spiritual battlefield. Beware the gentle slope, soft underfoot. Letโs not let anything in our life edge out the time we spend chasing after God and His good plan.
โSo roll up your sleeves, put your mind in gear, be totally ready to receive the gift thatโs coming when Jesus arrives. Donโt lazily slip back into those old grooves of evil, doing just what you feel like doing. You didnโt know any better then; you do now. As obedient children, let yourselves be pulled into a way of life shaped by Godโs life, a life energetic and blazing with holiness. God said, โI am holy; you be holyโโ (1 Peter 1:13โ14 MSG).
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linda hershman | March 19, 2019
Hi Cathe
So appreciate you and Greg. I have always gained so much from the wisdom from you both.
By the way, we took the 2012 Israel trip with you guys, and also Alaska 2015, both trips were just amazing. I doubt you would remember us, but we had 2 sons on both trips. One is second year at Masters now and the other is 10 th grade Your granddaughters were on those trips too! Amazing how they have all grown so fast! God Bless you and this ministry.
Linda
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Gaby | March 19, 2019
So very needed to hear this. Thank you! The Lord bless you and your ministry!
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Trina | March 19, 2019
โค๏ธ - thank you - โค๏ธ
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Holly | March 19, 2019
Excellent message, Cathe! We all need to be reminded of this!
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Teresa | March 19, 2019
Thank you for all you do.. I also needed to ( hear) read that!!
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Valerie Hobby | March 19, 2019
Love your fresh straightforward conversion with us... iron sharpens iron. So appreciate God put in your heart to do this blog
Thank you
Val
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Jamie | March 19, 2019
Thank you Cathe. Such a good reminder! Thank you for always speaking Gods truth! Praying for you and Greg always!
In him
Jamie
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Debbie Zamora | March 19, 2019
Hi Cathe, thank you for sending. I needed this today it was hard day. Thank you, God has good things for me. I love Jesus very much. I read this today Proverbs 3:5-6. ah.. My Jesus be my heart and mind for eternity..
Thank you, :0)
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Ellen Elsner | March 20, 2019
Thank you!
Great Reminder(s)!
GOD Bless you!
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Susan Landry | March 20, 2019
thank you, cathe. God bless you :)
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Shannon | March 20, 2019
Amazing blog this morning, Cathe*...You remind us all to be ever vigilant...Watching out for (and turning away from) those "subtle" temptations that come our way...and to keep our "eye on the prize" as we patiently wait for His arrival...What a day that will be! * : )
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Trina Crescenzi | March 20, 2019
Thank you for this reminder! Itโs way too easy to spend too much time on our phones even if weโre reading good stuff! The CS Lewis quote says it all!
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Linda | March 20, 2019
I agree totally Cathe. I removed facebook from my phone. It seemed to be holding my attention and time too much. I have more time to focus on my Bible and devotionals. It's like fb pulls you in to another world. I feel so much better without it. Thank you for this article. Also for all your others. I am so thankful for being able to read your devotions and also your husband Greg's. I have learned so much from you both. I am so thankful for Harvest.
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Diane | March 20, 2019
Thank you, Cathe. What a great wake-up call and/or reminder for all of God's daughters. I so appreciate the "gentle slope" visual that is so true and powerful. Loved reading this impacting post! xxoo
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