come to the table
“You have been invited to dinner with the President and First Lady at the White House!”
When my husband told me this, I could hardly believe it. Wait, what? Is this a joke? I truly thought this had to be some kind of mistake—but turns out, it wasn’t. I saw it with my own eyes when the beautiful, handwritten invitation arrived in the mail, late July. Addressed to “The Reverend Greg Laurie and Mrs. Laurie” with a return address that simply said, “The White House, Washington, D.C.” As I held it in my hand, I realized this was really going to happen.
It seemed like such a far-fetched idea. Me? Invited to dinner at the White House? Who am I to have such an honor! Regardless of who is President, you don’t say no to an opportunity like this. You just don’t. It’s a once-in-a-lifetime invitation.
Naturally, the next question in my mind (of course) was what in the world am I going to wear? Mrs. Trump and the President’s daughter, Ivanka, would be there and I wanted to dress appropriately for the occasion. I didn’t want to look back on this in ten or twenty years and say, “What in the world was I thinking when I chose that outfit?”
I searched the internet for images of past dinners at the White House, and most of them looked like formal affairs of state. But this was going to be a different event. The invitation specified “Business Attire”. Hmm…so a formal gown wasn’t required. Maye a simple, classic dress would do. Nothing too embellished or fancy…I am a Pastor’s wife, after all.
So I looked, looked, and looked some more. I found several dresses in florals, with bright colors. I even called my stylish friend for advice. But my best stylist has always been Greg, with his discerning eye for what looks best on me. He actually went out shopping for me, and you know what? This girl ended up wearing a stunning, “Jackie Kennedy” style knee-length dress with cap sleeves, complete with beautiful silver and gold buttons on the side of the bodice. It was perfect. Understated. Yet very special for being chosen by none other than my husband.
Now what’s a dress without a good pair of shoes? These, I chose for myself—the highest heels I could find. I thought they would make me look taller…and thinner. Oh yes, they sure did. Five inches taller to be exact. Never mind they were unbearably hard to walk in. The price of beauty is pain, right? Right! I learned this firsthand after the long walk from Pennsylvania Avenue to the east entrance, through the security check-in, up the winding staircase, down the marble hallway, past rooms with portraits of presidents and their wives, to where we stood, yes stood, for ninety minutes, listening to the Marine Corps orchestra and sampling delicious bites of food and drink. All the time thinking to myself, Cathe why, why did you buy these shoes? Thank God for the lovely settee I found, where I could finally slip off those heels of misery.
Dinner was served in the elegant State Dining Room. Greg and I were seated in front of the fireplace, underneath the Lincoln portrait, right next to the President’s lectern.
Table 6. There it was, with my name written in beautiful script: Mrs. Laurie. A place prepared just for me.
Invited by the President to share a meal. My name. Not just Greg’s, but mine. Why would anyone turn down such an invitation?
And yet, we do.
Jesus daily invites us, “Come and dine.”
Come to the table, there is a place just for you. I have prepared a feast. I have set your place. I’ll be waiting. No need to strive for a place at the table, your seat is already reserved.
Some days we come, ready to be filled. But many days, we’re a no-show. Have you ever been stood up? Let me tell you, it’s not the best feeling in the world. Yet we do this with the Lord all the time.
Imagine standing up an invitation to dine with the Lord of the universe.
This isn’t just a dinner party—it’s an opportunity to share in deep, heart-to-heart conversation with the King of kings. Am I eager? Excited and prepared for our time together? Do I find myself counting the minutes until I finally get to sit at His feet?
I have to admit, until I was in Bible study I never had consistent, daily devotions. I couldn’t get myself up early. I couldn’t keep myself organized through the day. I am lousy at self-discipline.
Eventually, I stopped reading Bible study “help” books and short, inspirational devotionals (which was usually a sweet sermonette) for my quiet time. I made myself accountable to do a regular Bible study that required a daily dose of reading, comprehending, asking questions and allowing the Bible to question me. That’s when I began to take delight in this time with the Lord.
So, here is my challenge for you. Go to a Bible study where you can sit with a group of women who are hungry to know God’s Word. Together, you can be accountable to read, pray, think, write down and apply what you’re learning.
Don’t wait. Don’t make excuses like, “I don’t know enough” or “I already know this.” Come humbly. Come hungry. Come with Jesus. Come as you are, no fancy clothes or uncomfortable shoes allowed!
Does this sound simplistic and corny? If so, I apologize. But this is truly my Bible study method. It has been for thirty years.
I love Jesus and I so desperately need Him.
If you love and need Jesus too, but struggle to find time with Him in the Bible, let me give you a solid place to start. Come to Virtue Bible study. This year, we will study the book of Romans. It will be deep, foundational, and yes, challenging. I will admit to feeling a bit intimidated, but it’s so very essential that we understand this book!
If you live near one of our Harvest campuses, come sit with us. Come say hello, or drop me a comment here. If you don’t live nearby, you are still invited! Get a few friends and make it an evening of watching together online. You can download the lessons here at no cost, and watch the teaching video teaching each week.
Wherever you are, there’s a place for you.
So kick off your shoes, put on your favorite stretchy pants and come to the table. You’re invited to dinner with the King and his family!
P.S. For sale on eBay: Beautiful five-inch black heels, pointed with silver metal toe caps. Like new, worn only once—to the White House!
27 comments
Cynthia Christian | September 12, 2018
Thank you for sharing this beautiful example of an important invite ❤️❤️
Tania | September 14, 2018
Amen! HalleluYah KING Jesus! Thank you for inviting us. What a huge privilege. Blessing and honor and glory and power be to Him who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb, forever and ever! Revelation 5:13
Bishop Clancy | September 15, 2018
Great picture of an invitation of the King of Kings... God bless you mightily
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Darice A Terry | September 14, 2018
Cathe oh I wish some people near and dear to me would accept their invitation to dine with the King of King and Lord of Lords. Thank you for such a perfect word picture of your time at the White House-
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Lynn Bliss | September 12, 2018
I am so glad I joined the Eagle Glen branch of VIRTUE, three years ago! What a blessing it has been! Can't wait to start a new year of growing in Jesus, and fellowshipping with such friendly and loving Sisters in Christ!
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Adri Peredia | September 13, 2018
Thank you for these encouraging posts you share with us! Thank you for your wise advice and everything you do.
I always enjoy your posts!!
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Caroline infante | September 14, 2018
Thank you. I love it. I always love you words and take them for me. God Bless You. Love ❤️
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Trina | September 14, 2018
I love that ❤️ Thank you,
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Natalie Osborne | September 14, 2018
Hahahahaha! I love the shoes for sale on eBay! So funny!!! Will join the Bible study on line. Wish I lived close. Thanks Cathe for all you do for the Lord that reaches so many people.
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Mary Ellen | September 14, 2018
Mrs Laurie...thank you for the advice. I have to admit I have done the same thing, falling of my time in devotions and reading my Bible is a continual obstacle for me. I get so disappointed in myself it sometimes gets me depressed, which I hate to admit, but seeing another child of Christ admit that and continue the walk is encouraging. I’m not in this alone❤️ God Bless and I look forward to the amazing study that is to come.
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Sharon Saxon | September 14, 2018
You looked amazing but I think you always do because Jesus shines through you! What a great experience!
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Sandra | September 14, 2018
Sorry but I personally don't think you guys should be material people cause when we die we don't take nothing. No hate, just opinion.
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ANGELINA TREECE | September 14, 2018
Thank you for sharing your experience. I go to church then go to a Bible study that is geared towards the homeless, not much opportunity to discuss topic of study. I do read everyday something that is pointing to God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. I share what I read or listen to kinda one-way conversation. Anyhow thank you again for your time.
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Sheila | September 14, 2018
Thank you for this invite and for studying only through the Bible, the best material there is.
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Marcia Rysanek | September 14, 2018
I wish I had received this last week before I bought the Bible Study books for our Women’s group! Next year we will join Virtue from cyberspace in Texas! :)
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Olivia | September 14, 2018
lol, You had me laughing with the shoe story, I have done that so many times and then I wonder why I did it. I'll be joining the Bible Study for I believe the 4th, maybe 5th year in a row. In there, based in the Word of God, I have found counsel, comfort, answered prayers. I have cried and laughed. I have meet so many awesome ladies and made new friendships. I thank God for this church, for you and this ministry. God Bless you!
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Lisa Garvie | September 14, 2018
That was beautifully written. Thank you for sharing.
I receive so many emails in a day....I find I’m never sure which ones to read and which ones to delete. Well...I’m now sure of one to watch for. Lovely. Thank you.
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Ann Porter | September 14, 2018
So funny about your White House dinner shoes being sold on ebay. You are so cute. I would go to dinner at the White House if I was invited. But yes, the dinner with Jesus will be so much more spectacular. I can't wait for it. I said "yes" to that invite a long time ago. Will watch your Virtue Bible Studies online. Thank you.
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Brittany Funches | September 14, 2018
Thank you so very much for the invite! I love this story and the way you relate it to Jesus! Our God is such an awesome God and I appreciate that Greg and you spread the Gospel and provide it to as many as possible! Thank you for being such an example of what a woman of God should be! Thank you for allowing God to use you to reach so many! May God bless you and your family!!
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Janel Meza | September 14, 2018
I love you Kathy! I love your heart, your posts, so uplifting and encouraging always. Thank you for sharing this beautiful story, you deserved the invitation and more. I could picture you fitting in beautifully, xo.
I couldn't help but laugh out loud...Ebay - SHOES on sale!!
From another Pastor's Wife, Janel
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Mary | September 14, 2018
I work in fashion apparel & you killed it with your outfit, but your message moves hearts. Thank you for sharing & being so open. Your message today has been very moving, I have been walking with the lord since I was 15, I will be 62 years young in a few weeks and He becomes sweeter each day. Loved this message.
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Debbie Zamora | September 14, 2018
Hi, Cathe,
It's good to hear from you! Thank you so much for sending and for the beautiful reminder that we are invited to dine with Jesus daily. It made me think of the marriage supper. I love Jesus very much, very much!! I would like to join on line the women's bible study. Thank you! Have a good weekend!
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Wynette Sperling | September 14, 2018
Perfect comparison, wonderful food for thought !
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Karen Wisneski | September 15, 2018
Love the corny, Cathe.
You're adorable, and real. I thank the Lord everyday for you and Pastor Greg. Am honored to be at Harvest. Can't wait for Virtue. Last year changed my life!
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Beth Williams | September 15, 2018
Cathe,
Funny story with good insights. People today make all kinds of excuses for not spending time with the Lord. Can't get up early, too busy, not enough time & the list goes on. Truth is it doesn't matter what time of day or how long you spend. Just take time daily to talk with Him & read the Bible. Talking with Him is simple. Just do "Breathe prayers". Breathe in say Jesus-breathe out say help me. He is waiting every morning to talk with you. Just take a few minutes & say thank you for another day. Let's not skip out on the invitation to dine with the Almighty! I will be everyday!
Blessings :)
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Linda Holland | September 15, 2018
Cathy, I live in Idaho and I read your devotional every day. YOU lift my spirts to face another day. Bless you
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Chrystal Arcaris | September 16, 2018
Oh Cathie;
How gracious and loving this analogy and blending to invite to come dine at His table. What a blessing to be invited to sit with the King of Kings and Lord of lords. Well said. ????????????
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Natalie Kiser | September 16, 2018
How perfect is that picture you painted. Everyday God waits for me. Am I so busy that I keep HIM waiting? He is so much more than President! But even the President I wouldn’t keep waiting! I love that we have a President who wants Biblical council! And I am excited for another year of Bible Study! And Romans?! Yay!! God Bless!
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Kathy Andrade | September 19, 2018
I just signed up for the bible study. I am so excited to connect with other Godly women. I hear you on the high heels. I had to give them up too.
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Lisa graham | December 9, 2018
We had an excellent night at the Harvest Virtue Christmas and lovely market. The worship was warm and inviting and worshiping together was special. Madeline’s portrayal of Mary was beautiful and her perspective was filled with God’s spirit. God bless you Mary!
Cathe, thank you for your message of hope and encouragement of not missing the point to Behold Jesus in His season, we celebrate. Loved the first and second coming parable.
Thank you Virtue for joy in our Christmas season, opportunities to know Him, we celebrate!
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