And Then, What?
One delightful aspect about bike riding with a large group is that every ten minutes or so, you find yourself riding next to someone different. (I guess I should only speak for myself. Others may say the one annoying thing about riding in a large group is riding next to me!)
It was a Coppertone day—we could feel the cool breeze blowing off the Pacific, the sun shining warm on our arms and noses—spinning south on Pacific Coast Highway through Seal Beach, Huntington Beach, and on to Corona Del Mar. This perfect day was about as good as it gets on earth.
Most conversations on the bike are not significant. Most have to do with how many miles you clocked that week or what preferred concoction you had in your water bottle. But a conversation with one man started something like this: “Next year, I’ll have made enough money to retire. (This was pre-2008; they were managing a thriving business in mortgage banking…you get the picture.) And then, I will get in even better shape, ride my bike all day, everyday, take it easy and go on long vacations!” Such were the daydreams of one 40-year-old cyclist: cruising up to the sunset years.
I listened, contemplated for a moment the sober reality of my future, my children’s future…and felt a twinge of envy. He and his wife were youngish (40 is young to me now), newly married, with one adorable, very privileged daughter.
Their voices rose and fell as they talked on—so very pleasant, like a sailboat headed off to Catalina. The miles ticked on my odometer. They talked, and I tried to imagine what it’s like to have a sense of such financial security…sigh…all blue skies, endless stretches of palm-tree-lined roads, pleasant conversations on bicycles, and postcard sunsets—with me holding an ice-filled glass with a cute little umbrella.
It’s at times like this that the Holy Spirit will gently nudge or shake you back to truth. “Get a grip, girl. Is that the extent of a life well lived? Then what? What about 10 billion years into eternity? Will a fat 401K provide what you will need that far into the future?”
At this point, I couldn’t help myself. I am a pastor’s wife and frankly sermonizing is, well, irresistible at times. “Wow, I guess you’ve been thinking about your future. Hey, this reminds me of a story that Jesus once told.” I couldn’t see if he rolled his eyes behind his Oakleys or not, so I continued. “Jesus said there was this guy who’d made quite a fortune for himself. So much so that he planned to build even bigger warehouses so he could expand his business, kick back, and take life easy. Only, headed around the corner, there was one problem he hadn’t counted on. You see, that night God said to him, ‘Tonight is your last night, and now who will get the earthly wealth you have acquired?’
“And the guy dies without ever realizing his dreams on earth and worse yet, he had nothing to show for his life, in eternity. Then Jesus said, ‘So it is with anyone who may be rich in this life but isn’t rich in God’s eyes.'”
There was an uncomfortable pause and then, a moment later, the light changed. The group picked the pace back up; the conversation was over. It can be like that; as John Lennon sang, “Life is what happens to you when you’re busy making other plans.” Unfortunately for this guy, just a year later the economy went in the tank and so did his plans to retire.
Proverbs 23:5 says, “Cast but a glance at riches, and they are gone, for they will surely sprout wings and fly off to the sky like an eagle” (NIV). I’m not saying saving for the future isn’t wise. It is. But it’s foolish to think only about here and now.
I have had an image in my mind lately, a picture that reminds me of how quickly time passes. It is a handful of pearls being dropped casually, rhythmically, one by one by one, from our fingertips. These pearls (each of us are given an undisclosed number) are slipping every day—precious, irreplaceable. So before the next pearl slips through your fingers, ask yourself this question, If this were my last day on this earth, what matters most? Would you need to make some drastic shifts in your value system?
Remember to assess your values in the light of heaven’s economy. Are you rich towards God? What does He prize most? Whatever it is that the Spirit of God may reveal to you, I hope and pray you won’t waste another precious pearl.
9 comments
BJ | August 10, 2011
Cathe-Beautiful and touching! I never considered the futility of the man building up his storehouses. How gripping to realize that he didn't achieve his wants on this earth nor his desires in heaven. That truly is a sad and wasted life. Encouraging for me to not waste my time while I'm here serving the Lord and for me to continue spreading the Word because a life wasted is hell on earth and in eternity. God Bless!
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Rebecca | August 17, 2011
As usual another wonderful gem from you! I always look forward to your notes because they make you stop and think about what is truly important. I hope you don't mind that I featured you on my blog.
Rebecca
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Debbie | August 21, 2011
Cathe, your sharing this moment with us is just another reminder to me that we must always be ready to share God's word when He creates the moment to share it, even on a bike ride on a beautiful day at the beach. God had this man in such a place he had to listen. It wasn't at a church sitting in a pew, you two were on bikes and you had his attention. God is so great, He uses people like us to reach out to where people are. It reminds me of the story of Jesus meeting the woman at the well at the noon hour. He used you to meet this man on his bike ride with words he needed to hear. AMEN Deb
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Arlene | August 24, 2011
Thank you, I needed this TODAY! Afer a recent move out of California I have been focusing on all that is lost and left behind and feeling sorry for myself. Not focusing on what God has blessed me with and focusing on things and money to fill the empty spaces... Today is a new day,
Thank you for opening my eyes wider today. Bless you!!
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Fran | August 24, 2011
Cathe,
In reading this...such JOY for your boldness in saying the Truth. All Christians, true Believers in Jesus and His Word, have such moments of flesh. Just a moment...then reminded of how the riches of God are Yay and Amen! We among all people so incredibly blessed! For Eternity!
That man will never forget what you said to him. His life will be changed in that moment or not. His choice. But he had/has to make the choice due to your words fitly spoken. I thank God for you and your example.
No longer do I have my own home, car, portfolio or business. Have chosen to be a chaplain/discipler in the community and church because of now knowing, through hard times, that God is sufficient to all our needs. Standing in faith for His provision because He owns it all. That knowledge leaves us free to go about our days with no stress...for the future is all His. When we rest in His hands, we rest. I do not boast. Only in the 3-in-One and the Word. He will reign Forever!! God bless you!
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Patsy | August 25, 2011
Very good! Sometimes we allow our priorites to be things and not persons. The only thing that matters is our relationship with others and how it impacts them for the Lord. I like your analogy of the pearls each for me the pearl being representive of our love ones. Have we nurtured them in love, have we been a friend? Have we given them our time. Have we been to them, Jesus with skin on? That is what the Lord is speaking to me. God Bless you and thank you for your continued example of dedication to the Lord.
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Nicole | August 26, 2011
Great story. We are going through a stressful time in our life right now. But you know what, Jesus is next to us and helping us cope with these stressful financial times. I too, have to leave So. Cal and will miss going to Virtue and seeing the women I know. I feel so blessed to have been a part of your church. Always looked forward to each week and each speaker, who are such an inspiration in our lives.
We had to short sell our home, because business has completely stopped. My husband and I hold each other and pray together and just today it dawned on me that I have always said I would like to be out of a house with no payment and when our credit is better and the time is right we will be able to buy something that is affordable. Why this dawned on me is because the Lord is listening to what I grumbling on about everyday. The stress is just too much!
By the way I am working on my grumbling----
Thank you, Cathe for all your wisdom.
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Julia | August 29, 2011
Sisters...for those with Prodigal husbands keep praying with vigilance, God hears our prayers!!! He answered ours!!! My husband divorced me after ten years of marriage to live in the world. For over two years our children and I lifted him up everyday, all day, and on Christmas Eve (it was a Christmas miracle) he went to church and re-dedicated his life to our Lord. He visited us on Christmas Day and asked for our forgiveness and a few months later after counseling, we got re-married in the Lord!!! We've been sooo blessed!!! Don't give up!!! For with God all things are Possible!!! Luke 1:37 (That verse was in our wedding vows). :) love your Sister in Christ
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Blanca | August 31, 2011
I thank our Lord for bringing my prodigal husband home 3 yrs ago, and reuniting our family/marriage again. Thank you Jesus! I pray for my husband that he give his life to the Lord - that he open his heart and let Him in - I have faith that he will open his eyes one day. I also pray for my teen daughter, that she be protected from the temptations and evilness in this world and that she make wise, Christian decisions. I pray for the lost souls in the world who don't known God at all. I especially pray that He bless me with a healthy baby boy and that He guide me through this difficult time of financial struggle. I THANK our Lord for giving me such loving and Christian parents who continue to remind us that Jesus is the answer to everything and He is always listening. I thank the Laurie family for spreading the Gospel and touching so many lives, like mine :) God Bless you!
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