An Eternity of Sundays
“My dear, here we must run as fast as we can, just to stay in place. And if you wish to go anywhere you must run twice as fast as that.”
—Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland
As long as the world keeps spinning, I’m going to get dizzy . . . not a good thing because I’ve always had motion sickness. At times I feel I’m on the tea cup ride in Fantasyland with the Mad Hatter at the wheel. These days, I mark the passing weeks not only by the calendar, but by how quickly I go through my packages of contact lenses. Failing eyesight is just another marker of time.
Maybe you feel like I do. Constantly rushing, trying to do and be everything culture dictates—so busy checking my calendar and making plans that I miss the now moments, the only ones any of us really possess.
I’m watching the little olive tree grow big. The flowers need replanting in hope of an Easter yet to come. The scripture carved in stone on Christopher’s grave marker is etched with six winters and summers, the damp sea air and the sun. My grandkids, each a walking talking marker of passing days, cannot wait for me to catch up with them. My hair is turning gray . . . or at least my roots are.
I need a place where time is not an enemy, where getting old doesn’t equal falling apart. I need a place where there is stillness, rest. How I need the One who is changeless, timeless, and eternal to steady my nerves.
This has to be the greatest challenge in a world where the words “Hurried, Worried, Buried” could be the epitaph on countless tombstones. We need to value down-time to purposefully disconnect from the tyranny of things and connect with God.
One simple way we can is by guarding our Sundays. Imagine if we did. By the end of one year, we would have spent 52 days recharging our batteries, rebooting our priorities, centering our spiritual lives. That’s seven and a half weeks of vacationing, resting, and worshipping Jesus!
Maybe we should think of Sundays as practicing—dress rehearsing, for an eternity of Sundays we will spend Him.
In the quiet
In the stillness
I know that You are God
In the secret of Your presence
I know there I am restored
When You call I won’t refuse
Each new day again I’ll choose
There is no one else for me
None but Jesus
Crucified to set me free
Now I live to bring Him praise
In the chaos, in confusion
I know You’re sovereign still
In the moment of my weakness
You give me grace to do Your will
When You call I won’t delay
This my song through all my days
All my delight is in You Lord
All of my hope
All of my strength
All my delight is in You Lord
Forever more
—”None but Jesus,” Hillsong United
39 comments
Marie Cariello | March 20, 2015
First time I visited your site! Really liked it!
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Suzanne | March 20, 2015
I know the feeling. Time passes by so fast. I need to take more time to be with my Heavenly Father. The one that has never failed me. He has been there for me through everything. Even the bad times, I've never doubted His presence. I truly love Him. I talk to Him like He is just sitting next to me. He probably even laughs at me sometimes. I hope to bring more smiles to Him as I honor Him more and more. I am blessed to have the love of the Lord in my heart. I am so grateful....
Suzanne
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Gayel | March 20, 2015
I love these.
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Bernadette Unalivia | March 20, 2015
Praise God! The Lord's timing is awesome! I just finished crying to God as my mind won't stop worrying, planning and trying to figure things out. Then I decided to go to His words as I know I'll find peace there. After reading the Bible, I saw this message in my email and started reading it. It's my first time in this Virtue for women site. Truly, only in His presence you can find stillness and solace. I thank the Lord for His perfect love. I praise God for your life Cathe and Pastor Greg. God bless you!
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Paola | March 20, 2015
I love reading these messages from Cathe every time she writes.. it connects me with my thoughts and helps me to focus on the importance that we should give to those little moments where we just need to be still and listen to His voice.
Thank you and pastor Greg for bringing the word of our God to life.
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Cat | March 20, 2015
I have been so blessed by your posts .. This is exactly my life too.. and I want desperately to get off the treadmill of life and catch my breath.... Thanks so much for the reminder to just be....still in the presence of Jesus.. That is where the true peace comes from and then I have the strength and courage to get back in the game...
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Monica H | March 20, 2015
Such a sweet reminder.. All my delight is you Lord, all of my hope and all if my strength..for ever more. Your words are so inspiring. I pray God gives you inspiration to write a new book. Your book filled with stories and words of wisdom. I am blessed by your ministry in so many ways. God bless you Cathe!
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Terri | March 20, 2015
Beautifully said, Cathe! A wonderful goal to set. I'm all in...
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Valerie | March 20, 2015
Amen.....
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Dorma Lewis | March 20, 2015
This was my first email from you, Cathe. It is very inspirational and right on time. I have re-dedicated my life to Christ after a very long dry spell. I happened on Pastor Greg's broadcast one day and it really spoke to me. The whole Harvest team has been amazing. I thank the Lord for your Ministry. I watch and listen to Greg's radio program all the time. Thank you both so very much for everything you're doing. God bless you always!
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Kathy Rogers | March 20, 2015
I so know what you mean..I lived my life like this for so many years...until I lost my precious daughter 4 yrs ago and time stood still...for a year we stopped....to help take care of her 2 yr old and a preemie little miracle girl born at 24 weeks....time literally stood still...the most important got done...God was my every breath....moments were hours....gradually I came back to life...only 3 short years later to lose our precious baby girl...who was our gift of grace....however, she too was God's favored and He took her home too...again, time stopped....now, I live in the moment....trying to focus on giving thanks and just making it to the next moment.....so Mitzi can be missed in a moment.
Stacy | March 23, 2015
My heart breaks for all mothers who have lost a child...how is it that our children are part of our very souls? Their pain is our pain, their disappointments are ours, their joys and successes are ours as well. And I'm reminded of just how much our Heavenly Father loves us. And as a mother & grandmother, I get it. It's a love that cannot be defined...there are no words that can adequately describe God's love for us. I've gotten a glimpse of heaven, during a traumatic event, and His Spirit completely enveloped me. His Spirit was above me, below me, inside me, next to me, around me; He was my every cell in my body. The sheer awe of experiencing God that way was His way of telling me, "I love you and I am here."
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Stefanie | March 20, 2015
Beautifully worded, Cathe. I needed this reminder. Because I work for the church, I rarely pause on Sundays because I'm a part of the framework that provides our church members a place to pause and worship our Lord. I also teach Sunday classes there. However, I DO choose one day a week to pause and breathe. Usually, I go to Disneyland by myself with my Bible to pause and pray and read throughout the day (I have a daily annual pass - it's my one luxury). My lovely daughter-in-law and I just spent a "pause" day together there...just the two of us. That was equally wonderful! I was escaping work; she was enjoying Spring Break from med school.
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Shelley M | March 20, 2015
Such a melancholy message; but I can identify with your thoughts, Cathe. I remember as a child, Sundays were for gathering at church and then family. No stores were open for shopping and life was simpler.
We really do need to be still and listen to the Lord.
Thanks and God Bless you.
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Linda Magin | March 20, 2015
I love the idea of Sunday as our 'day of rest'. Our boys know not to leave major homework for Sunday. It's a day for Church, family and rest. Just finished Greg's book of devotions. Read one every day. So will look forward to your words thru this email.
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Chit | March 20, 2015
You are a God given gift to women..
Love your delight!
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Luanne | March 20, 2015
Dear Cathe, I have literally digested this blog. It is so true that time just flies by. It's Sunday and then it's Friday and Blue Bloods is coming on at 10:00 pm. My Lord puts up with me with His mercy and grace. My job with the our Lord is intercessory prayer and I love praying for anyone and everyone. I love your reminder and I will pray for everyone to find that special spot that will help them to spend "High Time" with their Savior. Thank you and God bless you and Greg and all of your family each day. Luanne Magee
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Belinda Holwill | March 20, 2015
Loved reading this ..... so true!
Only God can satisfy our thirst ..... and fill that "empty feeling" within our hearts ...... walk His Way ....... to experience "peace like a river" ...... may God bless you!
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Katrina | March 20, 2015
Amen.
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Susan | March 20, 2015
This, is precious.
Thank you
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Jann | March 20, 2015
This is a wonderful reminder of days long ago when stores were closed on Sunday and Sunday was indeed a day to set aside for worship, rest and refreshment. Thank you for sharing this and the reminder. I LOVE it.
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Theresa Brodberger | March 21, 2015
I am a practicing Catholic. I am also a cashier at a large grocery/General Merchandise Store . I must work Sundays . I am fortunate to be able to attend evening Mass. I take time every morning to meditate and pray to Jesus, including reading Greg's daily readings.
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Melissa Williamson | March 21, 2015
Such an encouraging reminder! So absolutely true Cathe and thank you for sharing. Much love to you and praying today will bless you and your family with rest and restoration! Happy Saturday!
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Reina | March 21, 2015
AMEN!!!!
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Andrea Dixon | March 21, 2015
Just what I needed to read this morning. At 61 years old I was recently diagnosed with MS, and I am a recovered Drug addict, my eyes don't always work, my hair is grey, and my legs don't always work. I get tired, frustrated and have to stop often before I want to. Jesus is with me every day through every trial. I am so blessed, but time is running away so very quickly these days. Sometimes I feel like I am running to catch myself with no purpose. Thank you so much for sharing.
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Adrina Keresztes | March 21, 2015
So true. Time passes fast. Thank-you for sharing that beautiful message. Jesus died for us. He loves us so much. We should take time out for Him. Thanks for sharing Cathe.
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Veronica | March 21, 2015
Thank You Cathe! I so love your title "An Eternity of Sundays and the Alice and Wonderland analogy. I recently listened to a sermon called: "Walk don't Run" in this NASCAR lifestyle that some of us live in, always hurrying, rushing and being busy without purpose. If our purpose of being busy is without Jesus then we've wasted that time we can never get back. I'm reminded that we need to take his yoke upon us.
Thank You for sharing so honestly in this article. I'm inspired by your notes, recipes, and your first book. I've recently joined a ministry to enhance my writing skills and look forward to being used to advance God's Kingdom : )
Looking forward to reading your next book someday!
Blessings to You and Pastor Greg
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Chris kopp | March 21, 2015
Thank you Cathe for such a gentle reminder of what is really important in the hustle and bustle of the everyday. Taking the posture of rest and prayer. Reading through some of these replies and I am brought to my knees. Many blessings to you, thank you for sharing.
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Arlene Renico | March 21, 2015
BEAUTIFULLY said, Cathe! Sooo insightful--thanks for your message, and blessings on you.
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Roxann Pishnick | March 21, 2015
As I sit here planning the Dedication of a Tree at the new Parkland Hospital in Dallas for my Son Michael who was killed in a construction accident almost three years ago at that construction site. Your words touch deeply the heart that aches for all the things he has and will miss. And how my life has been just a blur getting through his sister's wedding, birth of his nephew, along with work, and planning huge events. At times I am so overwhelmed I can't breathe. I am going to challenge myself to take the Sundays and make them HOLY, my gift to God for all the Blessings He has bestowed on me. Thank you for sharing. You and your husband have really touched my life. New to the website and broadcast this year, I believe that God brought you both into my life to show me that we are not alone in our grief & pain. Our Family Motto is "We are Blessed" and we Love Always & Forever. May you have a Holy, Happy and Healthy year to come. Holy is the only one that leads to forever.
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JoAnn Donges | March 21, 2015
Beautiful. Encouraged my soul. I'm struggling with the same things for sure. Thank you.
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DeeDee | March 21, 2015
Thank you for this beautiful reminder and for a new and refreshing way to view the specialness of Sunday.
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Lisa S S | March 21, 2015
I just wanted to say "thank you" as well Cathe for your amazing post. I think in many different ways the Lord leads & guides each one of us, to hear and see, and learn all the things He wants us to learn. I found your message today to be exactly what I needed to hear! Thank the Lord that He has given us ears to hear, and eyes to see. And most importantly mouths to speak and breath to praise Him with! Most def we need to commit ourselves to spend time with our Father. After all He has done for us, and why is it that we seem to have to discipline ourselves just to stay focused on Him and the things above, and not the things of this world! Praise God for His miracles that He does in & through us, when we allow ourselves to let His will be done. Thanks so much for your msg today & yes I also am recommitting to spending all of my Sundays with the Lord. ❤ And actually I know I can't make it through even part of a day without being with Him & I Love ❤ knowing that He is with me.. Everyday❤
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Diane | March 23, 2015
So happy to get my Sabbath rest after a nursing career that included weekend work. My health suffered during that time. It's worth the loss of income to have a day to be still, participate in a few ministries, have family time, and enjoy my roses and backyard birds.
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Martha | March 23, 2015
Thank you for the message. God bless you.
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Ellie E. | March 23, 2015
What a beautiful post. Thank you Cathe. You are one of those women that I look up to.
You are the best. This one made me cry. I get your e-mails all the time and I read them all.
Again thank you, my dear sister in the Lord.
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Vicki | March 23, 2015
You and I are about the same age and I am feeling the exact same way you do. Sometimes I feel like one of the little hamsters on that darn wheel--just running like crazy buy not really going anywhere. Your Virtue for Women site is like a breath of fresh air to my heart and soul. Even though we all have way to many irons in the fire we need to stop and thank God for His many blessings in our lives. The serenity of Sunday is something I cherish and is one of the sweetest memories growing up. Thank you Cathe for reminding us that we are to keep the Sabbath for time for ourselves and the Lord. God Bless you and Pastor Greg.
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Julienne S Alvarez | March 24, 2015
Cathe, it is awesome to see you inspire the young women that are the next generation. I too am feeling the same as I have to remind myself that I am one person and cannot do it all. I Pray daily knowing my God is giving me strength, courage, and wisdom to follow His words from the Bible. It is great to see your post as well as Greg's too. My husband Richard and I have built a strong relationship and see a brighter future with our Lord up above. Thank you for your Love and kindness. In Jesus name :) Amen
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Debbie Zamora | March 25, 2015
Hi Cathe,
How are you doing? Last weekend I was trying to get some documents for court from my closet and I found something more, a letter from my sister. She is home with Jesus. The letters says, Debbie the same eternal Father who cares for you today will care for you tomorrow, put away all anxiety. This prepared me more than the documents I thought I needed for court. I love and miss my sister and I have learned something, My Jesus, My Heavenly Father and The Holy Spirit are eternal and they will take care of me today and tomorrow. There is more my sister wrote, but it may not fit here. God is Awesome! Thank you for sharing. I wear glasses, especially at nighttime. I'm getting older and last week we had heavy fog. I go to work at 6:30am and had to park. I could not see and I thought of Jesus and the disciples in the boat. My Jesus was in control of my driving and my storm. :0) Have a wonderful day. God's Blessings!
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Jacalyn Callahan | April 1, 2015
The words don't want to come out of my mouth. My heart is lonely and lost for Jesus. I love the Lord, but lost my way to Him. The temptation of not spending time with Him has overwhelmed me for the last two years. I pray for my needs and I know He is there beside me. The result of keeping too busy for Him so far is emptiness, being more indecisive, and uncomfortable. I need Him. I need that closeness again so I can find contentment.
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