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The word prudence is one of those wonderful, old-fashioned words that you may not have heard, except in the lyrics of a Beatles tune. Prudence is the ability to govern and discipline oneself by the use of reason. It is skill and good judgment in all life’s affairs. Verse 25 of Proverbs 31 says this: "Strength and honor are her clothing; she shall rejoice in time to come." The clothes spoken of here are not physical, but of godly character. These clothes can’t be found on the racks of your favorite boutique, but you will find them in your prayer closet.

The strength we are speaking about is defined as "a state of being strong, muscular power, mental power, moral power, firmness, or courage." The virtuous woman is strong in wisdom and in the knowledge of God. She has learned and valued these qualities above all her possessions. This strength in the Lord will get her through the difficult times, through the temptations and challenges of life. She will rejoice in times to come because she doesn’t have to be ashamed of her behavior.

The word honor refers to "high public esteem, credit, or reputation for behavior that is becoming or worthy; high respect, or to be an honor to one’s family." If you belong to Jesus, you are part of His family. You are the daughter of a King. Yes, that makes you a princess! As a princess, you are a representative of the King of Kings and therefore it is important to carry yourself with dignity and discretion. Our behavior speaks louder than our words and having a good reputation is priceless. Once it is lost, it may take years to regain.

I’d like you to take a moment and think about who your friends are. Do they care about your character? Are they encouraging your relationship with Christ, or are they dragging you down? The price you pay for compromising in the area of friendships is not worth it. It is interesting to note that the virtuous woman’s physical appearance is never mentioned because her beauty comes from within. It is her character that makes her beautiful. In Proverbs 21:26, we read this: "She opens her mouth with wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness."  Is your conversation distinguished by your wisdom and kindness?

Girls, no matter how beautiful your face or figure may be, if your language is indiscreet and beneath your position, you will present an ugly face to the world. But on the other hand, if you are discreet and dignified, and your strength is in the Lord, you will become a woman known by her inner beauty and sweetness, which is of far greater value!