the joy of LESS! part three
A few years ago, my dear mom called all four of her daughters to come over to the house. She told us in no uncertain terms that she wanted to give us all of the jewelry she had. So one Friday, after lunch at a favorite Thai restaurant, we went home to take turns choosing which pieces we wanted.
I can remember it just like it was yesterday. We all had favorite pieces we had seen her wear on special occasions. Like her mother’s vintage pearl necklace and a unique art deco ring set with deep blue sapphire and diamond baguettes. Personally, I loved her gold link bracelet decorated beautifully with square pieces of green jade. For years and years, my sweet mom took great care of all of these pieces and cherished them deeply. And let me tell you, that day my mom was so full of joy giving it all away to us.
On top of the jewelry, my mother went into her bedroom closet and gathered silk pouches and small boxes of treasures, and emptied them out on her crocheted bedspread. She laid them all out, keeping only her wedding band and her gold cross necklace. The writing was on the wall. She wanted us to know that she wasn’t going to live forever and none of these lovely things would be going along with her.
A Valuable Lesson
As I drove away that day, my heart was heavy but I had a valuable lesson tucked deep down inside that I will never, ever forget.
We so often spend the first part of our lives collecting, buying, and accessorizing our homes, our wardrobes, and ourselves. Until one day you realize that all this stuff breaks, wears out, or doesn’t matter all that much. At least it shouldn’t.
In Luke 12, Jesus taught a very important lesson:
Then He spoke a parable to them, saying: “The ground of a certain rich man yielded fruit plentifully. And he thought within himself, saying, ‘What shall I do, since I have no room to store my crops?’ So he said, ‘I will do this: I will pull down my barns and build greater, and there I will store all my crops and my goods. And I will say to my soul, “Soul, you have many goods laid up for many years; take your ease; eat, drink, and be merry.”’ But God said to him, ‘Fool! This night your soul will be required of you; then whose will those things be which you have provided?’”
Jesus ended the parable with this warning: “So is he who lays up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God” (Luke 12:16–21 NKJV).
Possessions can easily become a distraction and a hindrance to faithfully serving God.
That is why Jesus warned His disciples, “It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God” (Matthew 19:24 NKJV).
Laying up treasure for our golden years, for our children, or for our grandchildren’s education isn’t wrong. It is a virtue. The Bible says, “A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children” (Proverbs 13:22 NKJV).
But when it comes to the end of our lives (and no one but God knows exactly when that will be), the things that matter will not be what is in our closets, garages, or bank accounts. It will be the things of the kingdom: righteousness, peace, and joy.
The Legacy We Leave
The things we collect will not matter. It’s all about the people we have loved and who loved us, and the godly legacy that we leave behind.
Friends! Let’s commit to put God first, seeing the opportunity and responsibility we have to use these blessings for good (see 1 Timothy 6:17–19).
Riches can be dangerous if we do not have a biblical understanding of these things and put our trust in riches instead of God. Let’s store our treasures up above.
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“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, your heart will be also.” —Matthew 6:19–21 NKJV
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Gregory L Ruff | October 21, 2019
Awesome message thanks so much for you
Gabrielle | November 1, 2019
Thank you for this reminder. As I grow older I have become more aware of wanting a simpler life. Simple can be amazing!!
Carrie Lampert June 19, 2020 | June 19, 2020
Its true, I can remember as a young girl my mother would repeat this verse, Do not lay up your treasures on earth. But keep your eyes on Him. We come in to this world with nothing and we leave with nothing, All that matters is that we have lived a life for Him.
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Elizabeth | October 21, 2019
Thank you for sharing this precious moment Cathy. What a wonderful time that must have been for you, your sisters and your Mom. I can just picture it.
I didn't get that moment unfortunately. I have several of my mothers pieces that I have had since she passed in 2003. I really wish she would have spent that time doing this with my sister and I. But while she had cancer, I was visiting her and she had me pull out her jewelry box and she pointed out what and who she wanted certain pieces to go to and then got back in bed. None of which she chose for me. I just didn't even know what to say. None the less I left so heart broken that she hadn't picked something special for me. My sister and I divided up what was left after she passed but it really doesn't mean anything to me now. I recently was thinking of dividing up what is left soon by passing on to my daughters and granddaughters so they have something to remember by. It made me realize that it doesn't matter, it is just jewelry and this verse Matt 6:19-21 is so true.
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Yvonne Gamell | October 21, 2019
Thank you for sharing. This really touched my heart. May GOD continue to Guide you and Bless you always. Love and Blessings.🙏💝💕
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Pammy Jean | October 21, 2019
I loved this, and I can only imagine how excited your Mom was giving all of this to you girls, because anything we have on earth is just a loan, what is forever she gets to keep and we all know what that is, eternal life with our precious Lord. Thank for sharing this beautiful story.
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Lena Barraza | October 21, 2019
Beautiful Cathe,
Thanks for sharing. Your article says Part 3. Would you please tell me how to find part #1 and #2 article?
Blessings,
Lena
Leah Case | October 21, 2019
Hi Lena,
Thanks for reading! To read part 1 and part 2, click on the prompt "see the latest" (just above Cathe's current note) and scroll through the previous posts.
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Lori Chociej | October 21, 2019
This is just lovely, Cathe. It brought tears to my eyes and its truth speaks volumes. Thank you for your ministry!
-Lori
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Sandra Custodio | October 21, 2019
Thank you Cathy , I needed that today! I always love your messages and always look forward to the next one that you send
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Brenda | October 21, 2019
Thank you for sharing this beautiful message. Just at the right time as I look at all the stuff and wonder what to do with it. Time to get rid of it. Pass it on and clean house.
Thank you ~ God Bless,
Brenda
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Christina Murrey | October 21, 2019
Great article
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Eleanor | October 21, 2019
I loved this story and lesson. I have been retired for several years. I have no children but I recently asked my niece if she would like most of my jewelry and she gave me such an enthusiastic YES! Tomorrow Mike and I will drive to Albuquerque to see family and I can't wait to give her my trinkets and see her smile. Best of all I'll be so happy to share with her.
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Dawn Koltes | October 21, 2019
Wait - I didn't see part 1 & II as this so so good.
Leah Case | October 21, 2019
Hi Dawn,
Thanks for reading! To read part 1 and part 2, click on the prompt "see the latest" (just above Cathe's current note) and scroll through the previous posts.
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Elizabeth | October 21, 2019
I recently learned this lesson. I feel that nothing matters but my LORD! I have lost so many things these last 10 years, including things that I would have loved to passed down. These things that we think matter everything really mean nothing without my salvation or having that blessed assurance that I have a great home in heaven to be in the presence of my Father. At the end of the day I am not from here just passing through. This world can keep those things as long as my family and myself get the greatest gift of all HEAVEN.
~Blessings
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Millie juarez | October 22, 2019
Wonderful article Cathe!! Only confirms what I’ve been thinking.
Blessings,
Millie
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Debbie Zamora | October 27, 2019
Hi Cathe,
Thank you, for sharing.....I remember my dad he was in the living room he mentioned to me I'm not going to live for ever...he had the most beautiful eyes when he smiled his eyes smiled..I'm thinking I'm not going to live for ever either...I pray for my children and grandchildren.
Thank you,
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