Leading and Following
Brit and Rylie walked down the driveway, out to the car, the vintage red and white checked cookbook in hand, a big smile on their faces.
“What are you girls up to?” I asked.
“We’re going to the store to buy some ingredients for a recipe,” Brit chirped.
“Oh what a fun project on a summer day.”
“Look at this cookbook,” Brittni flipped open the familiar well-used vintage cookbook cover to show me three names written, one above the other. Carefully inscribed in large wobbly print were the names Molly, Brittni, and Rylie.
“This cookbook belonged to my mom,” Brittni pointed out, “Here’s where she wrote her name. Then I wrote mine, and now here is Rylie too!”
“Brittni, that’s so cool! Someday Ry, you will put your daughter’s name under yours!”
Three generations of young girls, one after the other, had turned the pages with their moms at their side helping to choose just the right recipe for their appetites and abilities.
Molly followed her mom, Lee, and led Brittni, who followed her mom, Molly, and is now leading Rylie. It is a beautiful thing to realize that each day in actions and words we can lead generations by the good examples we set.
In the Scriptures, the apostle Paul wrote, “Follow me as I follow Christ.”
In Brittni’s case, her mom modeled a woman who loved her husband, her children, and most importantly, loved the Lord.
Let’s be sure to choose our paths wisely, because each step we take is pointing the way for our children to follow.
One simple way to start our little ones on the path of righteousness is for each new mother to set aside time with her little ones to pray. Do you make time each day to model this important spiritual discipline?
If we would set aside the time (how long should be determined by their age and attention span!), what a difference it would make. We could pray for friends and family by name, pray about the various crises and events we may have heard on the news, pray for those who are suffering or sick. We could teach them to bring not only our private personal concerns, but the needs of loved ones, even strangers before the Lord—enlarging their hearts.
Teaching our children to pray begins with making time for it. When is the best time for you and your family to pray together? After the morning news? After dinner? Before bed?
If each day we prayed with our families, leading them on the path, what a difference it will make in their day…in their eternal perspective!
22 comments
Elizabeth | September 19, 2012
I love it, this is so true, I tell my daughters the same things that my mother told me "wait til you have your children, then you will know what I am going through". I hear myself say these words to my daughters and remember my mother telling me the same thing. I cannot agree more, that we need to be the ones to steer our family toward God and bring Love and Learning to their lives. I try so hard to give my children a better life than I had and it can get very overwhelming and hectic. Sometimes we are just so tired and beaten down from the day that we want to just go home and relax, that is when we need to sit down with our families and pray and thank the Lord for the day and our loved ones. I know I will continue to work at being a good role model, counselor, and most of all, a Mother who loves her family. Amen..
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Myrna | September 19, 2012
Cathe, you are so right on. Prayer has been the saving force in my shattered life. I will continue to pray for it is only by my Lord and Savior that things, people, circumstances change. All glory be to God.
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Kim | September 19, 2012
Cathe,
Thank you for the wisdom. Our time is after morning devotions, and before home schooling.
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Kathy | September 19, 2012
Inspired, blessed, beautiful and practical...Thank you!
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Wanda | September 19, 2012
Cathe! How marvelous! I don't have children, but I will certainly share this with my brothers and sisters, nieces, and nephews. It's never too early to acquaint the young with the power available to receive help with the things they are concerned about and those they love and care for, to say nothing about that world out there that always needs the love and care prayer brings. What a beautiful way to leave a legacy that lasts.
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Kathy | September 19, 2012
There is nothing more precious then the time spent listenig to my two young grandchildren pray. After bath time and dessert we all cuddle close in Gramma's bed, say our prayers and take turns blessing those in need, animals and family that have already passed, the homeless, the sick and those that we love. This is a special time that will always stay with us. We then each look over our individual age specific Bible until we fall asleep.
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Joanne | September 19, 2012
Prayer is what my mother taught all her children. It was the foundation that began us trusting God. One horrible day a turbulent cyclone swept near our home. Mom was on her knees begging God to make it diminish. I was only eight years old and felt her faith at work with passion. Her prayers worked. The big hurricane disappeared away from Kingsville, Texas and a little girl never forgot the faith that Mom ingrained in her little daughter.
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Kathi | September 19, 2012
Something that our daughter and her husband now do with their 3 kiddos - when they are tucking them in at night. The parents and the kids all share the high and low point of each of their day IF they want to - no pressure; They then, for each other, pray for 2 people each of them know, and for their foreign missionary-kids pen pals and the persecuted church (they subscribe to Voice of the Martyrs) and tell the kids how Christians are suffering in other parts of the world and want more than anything the prayers of their brothers and sisters throughout the world.... Once in awhile I am privileged to share in this intimate family time, and it is very touching and brings them close as a family.
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Christina | September 19, 2012
Cathe, Prayer is so powerful in all our lives. Talking to the Lord everyday in the beginning and throughout my day has given so much hope and grace in our lives and others.
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Rohma | September 19, 2012
Thank you Cathe and everyone for your wonderful comments. I have been experiencing trials and troubles with one of my own sons and families as well. I am praying and will continue to pray and have faith and trust in the Lord. I know I have nothing and will always depend on God. I'm praying with my youngest son (just turned 8 last Sunday) mornings and sometimes in the evenings before bed and I am inspired how he prays. And yes, NEVER CEASE PRAY!
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Beth | September 19, 2012
This was such a good reminder for me. I lost my mom last January, and as I reflected on her legacies to me I realized my earliest memory of her was watching her sit in her rocking chair every morning for her devotions and prayer. I was convicted that my own children may not have the same strong memory of me. Thanks for the gentle reminder of the commitment I made to remedy that and be more faithful in that area. It is the best legacy!
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jennifer Haffke | September 19, 2012
I couldn't agree more about teaching our little ones to pray. It is a learned discipline for sure. I came to the Lord when my children were half grown up! I teach Sunday School (4 and 5 year olds) and it is clear the children who pray with their parents. They cannot read or write, but they can pray in complete sentences. They pray for their mommies and grandma's and even the dog who may have died some time ago..... They are learning to speak their little hearts and give it all up to the Lord Jesus.
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Vi | September 19, 2012
This is exactly what I needed to read today! This is exactly what my husband and I were discussing right before I clicked to read this -- we NEED family prayer. We decided when he comes home from work is the best time. Prayer is powerful and when you bring a few believers together it is an amazing thing because Jesus is in our presence. May God bless and keep you and yours.
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Samantha | September 20, 2012
Such a sweet story. I immediately thought of my own Mom's Betty Crocker Cookbook, but with such a different path of our story...The cover of mine has my 7 yr old pencil scrawl ..."no pancakes" as I had become the "mom" to me my, brother & sister almost overnight. My mom had an affair which lead my dad to divorce and move out (it was 1962). Mom was of course given 100% custody, but had decided the life of a party girl was more to her liking than a mom to 3 kids... Our evening prayers ended abruptly - as did most of our traditions, like dinner together around the kitchen table. We still prayed, but mommy & daddy weren't kneeling with us... Life moved along and my mom's sad life ended at an early age of 53 due to complications from alcoholism... But Glory to God!!! I am so thankful to say that not only am I, as well as my brother & sister, passionate followers of Jesus, all our kids are too and now as a "gramma" I am sharing those prayers & Jesus with my 2 grandkids! God is so Good! Amen!
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Marcely | September 20, 2012
I will be having my first baby girl in December and I was so encouraged to read this cute story! I pray that I would set time aside when my baby girl gets here and teach her how to pray. I can't wait!
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Rose | September 20, 2012
Thankful for this cute story. I spend some time with my 13 year old niece. Since she was little I have always made time for her. It's such a blessing to watch her grow in her faith & to encourage her as she makes me laugh & encourages me. A couple of years ago she wrote about me & about why I am her hero. The following words she wrote were, "My Aunt Rose is so much fun. She always listens to me & she understands me & she makes time for me & she acts like a big kid too. I hope to be like my Aunt Rose when I grow up." Her words have touched my heart & I continue loving on her & making time to nurture her as she's growing up. She's in 8th grade now & I'm soo blessed to have her in my life! Also, I am now beginning to pour into college aged women & it's been such a blessing to help the younger women grow into Proverbs 31 women. We are called to do so & I'm only 34 years old. I can hardly wait to have my own kids one day, but for now I'm content with pouring into my niece & college aged women!
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Julia | September 21, 2012
Cathe, I just start receiving your devotions by e-mail and I just love it, thank you for your inspiration and the gentle reminder about praying, I do pray everyday but I need to start praying with my grandson who is only 3 , 2500 miles a way from us, but thank God for the new technology that we use to be able to talk to him on daily basis. May our Lord bless you and bless Pastor Greg Laurie, I read his devotions on daily basis before I start my day.
God bless
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Tish | September 21, 2012
Cathe,
This is a great story and good reminder that I must begin teaching my children how to devote time to the Lord and pray. I have not done that since I really always felt that I didn't know how to pray myself. I have learned more in recent years and have gotten better at setting time out of my day to pray. However, I definitely do believe that we are role models and this is a very important area I have not been a good example in for my family.
Thank you for the reminder and encouragement.
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Tami | September 22, 2012
Thanks Cathe! I love your wisdom!
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Karen | September 23, 2012
A reminder, to read, the 2nd chaper of Titus. (teach the younger women.)
What a beautiful picture!
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Anairam | September 24, 2012
Beautiful! I know that prayer is the most important way to comunicate with our Heavenly Father; our children pray with my husband and me before bedtime. One is 13, the girl is 10, Benjamin full of grace and energy is 2 and has already learned to calm down during prayers ( I had to pray for that. I was worried, but I knew it had to be a process) and Gabe that is 5 months old. We met the Lord three years ago and it has been a wonderful experience watching my kids talking to God and asking for others, but it took time and many prayers for God to work in their life in order for this to happen. I still pray for their relationship with Jesus and I know they'll take this experience with them once they have their own family. Thank you Jesus! Thank you Mrs. Laurie for sharing this story. God's continued blessing on you and your family.
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Keri | October 1, 2012
I agree! My daughter is almost 18 months old and I pray "with" her in the car on the way to the babysitter and before I put her to bed at night. I didn't even know she was paying attention until one day I said,"in Jesus precious name" and she said,"Amen". Kids take in more than we give them credit for. I am so glad that she has been seeing me model this for her.
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