free from the clutter
Over the holidays, Greg decided that this January we would de-clutter the garage. All this stuff! Shelves filled with things we once thought we needed and no longer do, things that are broken, or missing parts.
While I was putting away the Christmas decorations, I had a few minutes to look at what was on the garage shelves and in the cupboards. Here is some of what I found:
- Old stationary with our address from 20 years ago printed on the envelopes.
- Boxes filled with mysterious cables and cords—none which fit any of our phones or computers.
- A shoebox filled with keys . . . to what? I have no idea.
- A pile of cassette tapes marked “Keep” . . . why would I? We no longer have the means to play them!
- A fistful of coins from mysterious countries (some I don’t remember having ever visited).
And why did I store this can of paint? There’s barely enough left to cover a postage stamp!
Clutter is the disease of a house. It used to be that when kids grew up and left home, you would downsize and enjoy the clean rooms. But now the clutter just expands. And to my surprise it wasn’t all just Greg’s stuff! It’s easier to see the clutter someone else makes, and not your own.
Clutter is an interesting word. It comes from an old English word, clotter, which means “to clot.” Like a blood clot that blocks an artery and prevents blood from flowing, with disastrous results. In the same way, the clutter in our life slows us down and impedes progress in what we need to be doing.
I might be working in the kitchen and need a specific utensil. I stop my work and go searching for it. In the process of searching for item “A” I discover items B, C, and D. I get so distracted that by the time I find item “A” I’ve run out of time or forgotten why I needed it in the first place!
De-cluttering is hard. It takes a stop-at-nothing ruthless determination to get the job done. I need to ask myself three questions. Do I give it away, put it away, or throw it away?
It is so easy to justify keeping almost anything, but sometimes we need to take a scorched earth policy and put all that clutter in the dumpster.
It helps to remember that Christian life is like a journey.
As I look at what’s before me, I need to keep asking myself, is this really needed on the voyage?
If you’re looking forward to the next life, there’s a lot to be said for traveling light through this one. Let’s clear away the clutter—don’t be afraid to put something in the giveaway or throwaway pile. Perhaps God is asking us to keep less and give away more. To be content with what He has given us. We don’t really need to have more to be more.
Lord, help me get rid of the things that clutter my life and slow me down. Things I think I need, but don’t. And the next time I am tempted to buy something I don’t need (and probably won’t use for long) help me to remember. It’s not what I have, but who I am—and who You are that matters most!
Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for He has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” Hebrews 13:5
33 comments
Caitlin | January 16, 2018
Amen. There are so many things we need to prioritize and reprioritize in our lives. And it's not just a one-time thing; but something we should do on a regular basis. We should pray for contentment with the things that we have and that God has so graciously given us. He knows what we need before we speak a word.
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Robin Long | January 19, 2018
I loved this Cathe! This so speaks to my heart and what I’m trying to do in the natural and in spiritual, even now. I want to see clearly and focus on the vision before me.
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Esther | January 19, 2018
Thank you. What a gentle reminder of what matters in life and to not get caught up in thinking you need something when you really don't need it to be content. If we have Jesus, our all in all, we have what matters the most.
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Trenna | January 19, 2018
I work from home and my office space took up a large corner of my dining room. Over New Year's break, I decided to relocate my office to the basement. In the process of moving and re-organizing and going through every desk drawer and storage bin...I found countless highlighters that no longer highlight. Pens that are so old the ink is dried up, etc. I was able to purge 2 large trash bags of useless stuff that I really didn't even realize was taking up space. I wonder why my desk seems to always be a mess. It feels good to have everything have a place and have everything in its place. I feel lighter and more productive. Not only in my work space but in my mind space as well. It is amazing how liberating it is to declutter. Time well spent! Now I'm moving on to the kitchen! =0)
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anka deruysscher | January 19, 2018
Thank you Kathe; you caught me in the middle of agonizing what to get rid of; now it's much easier.
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Adri | January 19, 2018
Thank you for sharing this! I like how you always motivate me :)
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Kathy C | January 19, 2018
Praise God for your message. I am so depressed due to clutter. I have been praying for strength to go through the mess (lots of items brand new in boxes never used). Thank you for your encouragement. Please pray for me as I am disabled and unable to stand for long; however, I am going to work short periods of time rather than being so overwhelmed.
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Christine | January 19, 2018
I recently moved, so this article was definitely on the mark- I had to be brutal in what to keep/give away/throw away, a "scorched earth policy" as you said because in the end, "Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I will depart." (Job 1:21)
In the end, we should be satisfied and content for all the Lord given us. Now when I feel the itch to buy something that will just take up space, I will be thinking thrice (!) and be thankful for what I do have already.
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Ken Green | January 19, 2018
Y'all can pray for me about this. A legacy of pioneering then the depression I was taught everything has value, which of course it does but the cost of keeping and organizing, so very high. We even kept paper to start fires and rolled newsprint into logs. Rags saved for clean up. Plus the good scotch blood didn't allow for finest quality so most of the stuff just isn't collector quality. I have though determined that the curse ends with me.
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Beth Williams | January 19, 2018
Cathie,
People in this country tend to keep things for a long time. Older people didn't have much growing up & want to keep what they have. God's word advises us to share our things with others in John 3:11 John answered, “Anyone who has two shirts should share with the one who has none, and anyone who has food should do the same.” Knowing that, I declutter my closets all the time. Constantly going through my clothes & stuff to see what I don't use, wear, like, etc. I take them to area ministries where the less fortunate can use them.
Decluttering can be hard & does take discipline. It is worth it in the end to know someone will benefit from your sharing. God will bless you!!
Blessings :)
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Jessica | January 19, 2018
Thank you for the encouragement! My husband and I recently had a baby and our guest room became the baby room. Suddenly, there were baby things and a guest room all stuffed together. Every time I sat down to nurse (which seemed like every minute of the day) I was faced with stuff that once had a place but was now misplaced. Ugh! It was stealing my joy! Finally chipping away.
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Marie | January 19, 2018
Hi Sis Cathe
My husband and I were just talking about decluttering before I opened your email. Wow! Thank you so much for the article and words of Wisdom. One question though, what do I do with Prayer Journals that I've written for the past 20 years. They are taking up a lot of room and my husband thinks I should get rid of them. I'm not sure if I want to get rid of them. Any advice?
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Denise Dressen | January 19, 2018
So true Cathe! I love reading your blogs. What is funny is I have been feeling the need to clean out my closets, dishes, knick knacks....linens! I have so much and I think it is for whenever I have my own home and will need it.
I actually have a big cleaning this weekend planned.
What I did was put jackets, hoodies and sweaters and scarfs I have in separate bags and that way I can pass them out to someone on the street that looks like they need it.
God bless you and thank you!!
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Rachel | January 19, 2018
Thank you so much, I struggle with this and it is so timely at this time in my life...Since I retired I've intended to de-clutter so if something were to happen to me or I pass away, I do not want my kids to have to deal with all the stuff I leave behind during a difficult time in their lives :)
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Sandra | January 19, 2018
I always have a box ready to give to Goodwill. I don't go to yard sales either. I've also unsubscribed to a lot of things on the internet and devoted a lot more time to reading my Bible and books by trusted Christian authors. I'm making all of this a day by day "cleansing". I feel so much better. I was getting depressed about all the clutter. I am content. I love giving to others. Thank you that I can jabber here for a bit. God bless you!
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Debbie Zamora | January 19, 2018
Hi Cathe, its good to hear from you. I have so much clutter. I'm so glad that you defined it; clutter is clog.... with God's help I need to clean up my my house, lots to do. I love God's words in Hebrews 13:5 that my Jesus promises never to leave or forsake me and He keeps His promises. Thank you so much for sending. Have a good weekend. God's richest blessings to you and your family. Thank you, hugs.
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Kim | January 19, 2018
Every word rings true to me. Thank you for opening my eyes.
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Janice Vigil | January 19, 2018
God has really been speaking to me regarding this issue and now I see this post. It amazes me how great He is when He wants to communicate with us. It is so very hard for me to let go of things! Why? I look at the box full of cords and think if the device is ever found that belongs to this cord and I throw the cord away then what are we going to do??? Ok Lord, You got me. I will give up my riches and follow You!
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mary-ann weiby | January 20, 2018
so true! real good article......sometimes we have to pull ourselves together & do a real good job about removing the "clutter" .......and keep on doing it, so God can speak to us more clearly!!!forgetting the past & stretching/moving forward in the Spirit!
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Becky | January 20, 2018
Thank you Cathe. The Lord has been impressing decluttering in my life for some time. We recently had to clean out my mother's home as she needed to move to an assisted living place. My husband's elderly aunt also recently died. He has been the primary person in charge of clearing out her house. It's all such an eye-opener as to how much "stuff" we accumulate that isn't really necessary. One other thing...I can only be responsible for my own possessions. My husband is not on the same page. He is much more of a "keeper" than I am. I confess that is is much easier to see the stuff he doesn't need as compared to my own.
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Michelle Ruiz | January 20, 2018
Amen. I just recently gave up something that needed to be given up that was actually cluttering my life. Now I am going to move on to something that is going to be better for me in the long run. Its hard to give up things we are used to but when you think about it, it's like a transformation of your life. Just like when you gave your life to Christ and He never lets you down.
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Patti Wilson | January 20, 2018
This blog on clutter really spoke to me and inspired me to do some "cleaning" in these cold winter months when I am stuck inside. We buy so many things in life that we don't really "need" but simply "want." As I get older, I am more careful about what I spend money on. Thanks for your timely reminder.
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stefana mirto | January 20, 2018
The Christmas before last, I bought myself a Mandolin. Last Christmas I almost gave it away since I did not pick it up twice to learn to play it. Someone at the Denver Rescue Mission knows how to play it. I still would love to learn to play it. But that is not going to happen. If I prioritize my heart it is easier to let go of the silly wishes my heart desires and focus that someday I may hear the beautiful music that person from Denver Rescue Mission will play for me..in Heaven. Thank you for your article on CLUTTER.
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Meryl | January 20, 2018
Ahh... thank you Cathe. As always God came with this message through you to speak to me at just the right time. My husband and I for the last 2 days have been trying to purge. We have 3 small children and the toys are getting ridiculous. But I'm glad that you mentioned how easy it is to see their clutter and not our own. I'm somewhat of a sentimental hoarder, but it is all material, and it does slow us down and distract us. Thank you for your prayer and encouragement to throw things out that we don't need in this journey, to focus on God, and be content in what we have in Him.
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pamla L Kennington | January 20, 2018
You definitely caught my attention "Free from the Clutter" and my husband and I have been saying that this is the time to de- clutter but then procrastinate! Thank You for the reminder...We do not need all this stuff on our journey! God Bless
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Candi Haslam | January 21, 2018
I am so happy I signed up for these emails, I really enjoyed this. Thank You!
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Enedina | January 21, 2018
Amen! Thank you! I needed to hear this. My husband passed away almost 15 years ago and I still have a storage shed full of his stuff. I also have a bedroom that I have designated as the “pile room”. I can hardly walk in there. It’s so full of unworn clothes and broken things. You have inspired me to finally get rid of all these things. Thank you!
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Laurie | January 21, 2018
Great article. My 2018 goal is to go through packed away boxes, draws and closets and give away, if worthy, for someone to reuse. The remaining to throw into the recycling bin. I’ve started already and will continue. In 2008 during the economy collapse and spouse making a job change after 30 years in same job, home town, moving to another State, I remember placing in a pile to donate what we wouldn’t take. Looking at the pile I remember thinking “all this junk and I had to have this!” It was all donated and now 10 years later I have boxes and totes still unopened from our move. I know there will be sentimental things I want to keep but the rest will go. So blessed to know I have a heavenly home for me!
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Modestina | January 22, 2018
What a confirmation for me Cathe! God keeps speaking to me through His saints and servants! I heard not too long ago Joyce Meyer say she has lived more than half her life. Here soon I will be 53, my husband went to be with the Lord this past year, I realized what Joyce said was true for me to! Wow! So the clutter subject has been really on my mind. My husband saved everything! But I realized all that I have saved too! I told my sister I was thinking of renting a roll off dumpster haaaaaa! Yesterday I was thinking of putting a "free" sign with a pile out in front of my house!
This is my year to declutter my life. Thanks for sharing :)
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L.G | January 22, 2018
I love the words, "Lord help me to get rid of the things that clutter my life and slow me down". This reminds me of how I often worry a bit too much. Worrying is something that clutters and can interrupt my life. I need to focus more on God's grace and mercy and not spend time worrying about things that are out of my control. The Lord is in control and He loves me. He will not give me more than I can handle.
Thank you as always Cathe for your words of wisdom. I can always apply your words to my life.
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map | January 23, 2018
It has been three years so far of de-cluttering with JESUS' help... Little by little things are going out. Now if anything comes in I plan to also let something go out. If we have not used in in 3-5 years it can go.
Yearly so far we have sent some to stuff out via yard sale, some by donating, some in the trash.
GOD knows how to help us sift through our stuff and help us let go of what we really have no use
or need for.Year four now, and LORD willing, we live out with the excess so that we can enjoy
and move freely physically and spiritually speaking.
*** There are things that we also store up inside of us that a deep clean from JESUS reveals to us that what we once saw as treasure and become only trash now and slows us down---release it and live free!
I really enjoy the devotions and inspirations! A nice reminder to me that there are things I am dead
to in JESUS CHRIST and they must go, but also things I am alive in HIM and room must be cleared
out for the new. Romans 6:11
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Alica Rosa | January 23, 2018
Amen Glory be to God
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Sandra | January 23, 2018
So needed to see this, and more importantly, APPLY IT to my home, closets, and personal life. I have so much, and I know that there are people who could use things that I haven't worn or even touched for at least two years. My mission will also encompass ridding my heart and mind of clutter that I have worn like old luggage. Thank you Cathe. You are an inspiration.
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